Monday, January 12, 2009

Sex Partners: What's That "Just Right" Number?

Monday, January 12, 2009


This is a very sensitive issue that you have to carefully handle, you know. Too few and you’re labeled green and inexperienced, too many and, well, frankly, you’re considered a smutted-out bust down.

If you define sex as somebodies you know what going in someone's you know where, then my number is somewhere between 20-25. Probably on the higher end if we’re being honest here. Sex, to me, does NOT include kissing or oral or mutual masturbation. That's like me saying I've visited St. Louis or Denver just because I had a layover in the airport. Sex is sex, not foreplay.

I think my range is just fine. 20-25 sexual partners would mean I’m averaging 4-5 per year since I turned 20. That’s not too bad considering my 20s is my sexual prime and I'm just at the halfway point.

But, enough about me. How many people have you been with sexually? How many people do you say you’ve been with sexually? How many sexual partners is too many? If you’re dating and someone who says they’ve been with 50 people sexually, is that a deal breaker for you? What about 40? 30? 10?

I was brave and published my number. Share yours, too. Join me on this journey. Take the plunge. Drink the Kool-Aid. Tell the world all your biz, son son.

How many sexual partners have you had?
I'm virgin like Mary.
1-5
6-15
16-30
More than 30
Jonesy, don't bother cus I don't know.

14 comments:

Keith Jones said...

Well if you follow my blog stories then you can count 4 so far lol, but depending on how you define sex...if you include oral then honestly my guesstimate is over 40.

Sean Stone said...

True that. Counting oral sex, I had about 35-40.

BTW, I'm 29.

bLaQ~n~MiLD said...

Over 40. I was a lil freak in my younger years. Sue me! LoL.

~Damnit!

Mr. Jones said...

Keith - You betta have sucked 36 dicks!!!! Yessssss!!!!

Sean - How many strictly oral/not strictly oral? Im all up in ur biz. LOL.

Blaq - WOW! A freak is right. At least you embrace it!!!

Jersey Brotha said...

I would say about 30. If you include intercourse, about half that.

dickspot said...

Do Bath-Houses count ...... LOL ???

Some of us are old enough to remember when you could go there without a care in the world........ There was a great one in the French Quarter.

Mr. Jones said...

Jersey - What's ur cut off? Would u date a guy who had been with, say, 50 people?

Dickspot - Yeah...I would have been a MESS back in the day if I didn't have AIDS, et al to worry about. Like...I really love sex.

deonte' k said...

About 6 for me, and y'all are too funny up on this blog lol.

That Dude Right There said...

Just call me a (former) hoe!!! I wouldn't even protest.

Ty said...

Ok, honestly, I am up to 26. That made me feel like a ho until I remembered that I am almost 38 years old. That's a little more than one a year since I was 17 years old. Now if you want to count how many times with those same people.... LOL Let's just say that I have a lot of repeats. Some of which were lovers and a lot of in betweens.

Darius T. Williams said...

Yea - I don't play around in the sex area. I limit sex for people I'm committed too. I've only had 6 sexual partners in the past...can you believe that?

Darius T. Williams said...

Oh wait - are we including oral? Really?

I guess I need to go back and rethink this. LOL

Mr. Jones said...

Deonte - :-/ @ 6. I'm just sayin'. LOL.

TDRT - That a boy!

Ty - I need to hear some of these stories in private. For some reason, I've got my opinions about you in the bedroom. But everything isnt for public consumption. LOL.

Darius - 6 isnt bad if that works for you. Insofar as your number doesnt balloon to like...72 when you include all those oral sessions. LOL

Promiscuous X said...

Yeah I was a hoe up until last year...I have had a good amount of Hook-ups..Dam chatlines.....sigh. I have had about 15-20 sexual partners, but oral shit I lost count a long time ago lol

Im 22 now lmao.

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